“I Love Men Who Have Children, That’s My Type” – Kumawood Actress Elorm Aba Reveals Why She Prefers Single Fathers To Single Men

“I Love Men Who Have Children, That’s My Type” – Kumawood Actress Elorm Aba Reveals Why She Prefers Single Fathers To Single Men

Kumawood actress and media personality, Elorm Aba, has sparked massive conversation on social media after boldly declaring that she prefers to date men who already have children, explaining that she associates fatherhood with maturity, responsibility, and financial stability.

According to a post by GhanaWeb on Thursday, October 22, 2026, the outspoken actress made the revelation during a recent interview on Aluta FM, where she discussed her relationship preferences and explained in detail why men with children appeal to her more than single men without children.

Her comments, which have since gone viral after blogger Fiifi Pratt shared a video clip from the interview on Instagram, have generated heated debate among Ghanaians about love, relationships, and what women look for in men in 2026.

“I Love Men Who Have Children And That’s My Type” – Elorm Aba

During the Aluta FM interview, Elorm Aba did not mince words about her taste in men.

“I love men who have children and that’s my type,” she said with confidence, clarifying that her preference reflects her personal perception of relationships and what she wants in a partner.

She explained that she believes men who have already experienced fatherhood have a better understanding of childcare, family responsibilities, and how to handle a woman.

According to Elorm Aba, a man who has a child already knows how to wake up at night when a baby is crying, knows how to provide for a family, and knows how to be patient – qualities she says many single men without children lack.

“When a man has a child, he has already learned responsibility.

He knows that he has to work hard to feed his child, pay school fees, buy clothes. That man will not joke with his life or with you as his woman. He is matured,” she explained.

Why She Has Reservations About Men Without Children

While Elorm Aba admitted that she could still consider dating a man who has never had children, she expressed strong reservations about such men, suggesting that some might not have developed the level of responsibility she desires in a partner.

She argued that some men without children are still living a “boys life” – partying every weekend, spending money carelessly, not thinking about the future, and not ready to settle down.

“A man who has never had a child before, some of them are still behaving like small boys. They don’t know what it means to be a father. They can leave you at any time because they have no experience of commitment,” she said.

She added that men with children have already proven that they can commit to something bigger than themselves – a child – and that makes them more trustworthy as partners.

Her comments have divided opinions. While some women on social media agreed with her, saying single fathers are indeed more responsible and caring, other men argued that having a child does not automatically make a man responsible, as many men abandon their children and their baby mamas.

Elorm Aba Links Fatherhood To Financial Stability And Wealth

The Kumawood actress also linked her preference for men with children to financial stability, arguing that wealthy men often attract women who want to have children with them.

According to her, this makes financially successful men – like businessmen and politicians – more likely to have children already, because women naturally want to have children with men who can take care of them.

“Rich men, businessmen, politicians – women love them and want to have children with them. So if a man is rich and successful, chances are he already has children. That’s why I like them. It shows he is successful and women want him,” she stated.

She further made a controversial claim that some women may go as far as deliberately becoming pregnant by wealthy men, regardless of whether the men involved are actually the biological fathers, just to secure financial support and a better future for themselves and their children.

Her comments reflected her views on relationships, financial status, and the circumstances that can influence people’s decisions about having children in Ghana today.

“Some women will intentionally get pregnant for a rich man because they know the man can take care of the child. Even if the man is not the real father, they will still say he is the father. That’s how the game is,” she added.

Not The First Time – Elorm Aba’s History Of Controversial Relationship Views

Elorm Aba’s latest remarks follow an earlier interview in which she questioned why she should choose to date a pastor when businessmen and politicians were available.

In that interview, she argued that pastors don’t have money, while businessmen and politicians can take care of a woman’s needs, pay her bills, and give her a good life.

“Why should I date a pastor when there are businessmen and politicians? Pastors will be preaching, but businessmen will be giving me money. I need a man who can take care of me,” she said at the time, a statement that drew criticism from the Christian community.

Elorm Aba has developed a reputation in the Kumawood industry and Ghanaian media for speaking openly and unapologetically about relationships, money, and the type of men she finds attractive.

Unlike many actresses who try to be politically correct, Elorm Aba says exactly what is on her mind, even if it is controversial.

Social Media Reactions – Ghanaians React To Elorm Aba’s Preference

After blogger Fiifi Pratt shared the video clip on Instagram, Ghanaians have been reacting heavily.

Some comments:

– “Elorm Aba is saying the truth. Single fathers are more responsible. They know how to treat women,” a female fan commented.

– “So we single men without children, we are not responsible? This is discrimination,” a male follower argued.

– “She just wants rich men who already have children so she can enjoy their money. We know her type,” another user said.

– “Every woman has her preference. If she likes single fathers, leave her alone. That’s her choice,” another defended her.

What Relationship Experts Say

Relationship counselors who spoke to http://KasoaNews.com say Elorm Aba’s preference is valid as a personal choice, but it should not be generalized.

“Having a child does not automatically make a man responsible or mature. There are many irresponsible fathers who abandon their children.

Similarly, there are many responsible single men without children who will make excellent fathers and husbands. Maturity is about character, not about whether you have a child,” a counselor based in Kasoa said.

He advised women to look beyond whether a man has children and instead look at his character, his values, his financial discipline, his respect for women, and his willingness to commit.

Elorm Aba – Who Is She?

Elorm Aba is a Kumawood actress, TV presenter, and entrepreneur known for her roles in several Ghanaian local movies and her outspoken personality on radio and social media.

She has been in the entertainment industry for several years and has built a brand around being bold, beautiful, and brutally honest about relationships and life.

She is active on Instagram and TikTok where she shares videos about relationships, lifestyle, and her acting career.

What Do You Think?

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