STAGES & MOMENTS IN MARRIAGES
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1.THE AMAZEMENT STAGE:
This is the “wow” stage. Lots of new things to discover with Your Partner. The niceness, the freshness is so amazing.
Sleeping on the same bed, wearing the same attire, cooking for him, doing house chores with her, bathing together.
Wearing Your dazzling wedding ring everywhere, turning people’s head at the newest couple around. Loads & lots of fun.
2.THE IRRITATION STAGE:
This is when You begin to notice weaknesses You have overlooked or hopefully wish they go away but didn’t. The repetition of such weaknesses begins to work on Your nerves & You are getting irritated:
He snores a lot, she is slow in the kitchen, she belches loudly, he screams unnecessarily, she won’t bathe before coming to bed or shave, he spends many hours watching football & ignores You when you talk. “What’s just wrong with this guy?” You think aloud, well it’s part of marriage.
3.THE ANGER STAGE:
This is when You really can’t it anymore, when it has gotten on Your nerves & You display Your anger.
The introverted partners stuffs it in & either keep malice, avoid you or stubbornly continue with the irritating habit.
It’s the stage You begin to wonder: “have I really married the wrong Guy?” “Have I married the wrong Woman?” No, You did not, You are simply going through a phase together.
4.THE RESOLUTION STAGE:
When You begin to face the reality of Marriage & acknowledge Your Partner’s Weaknesses.
You eventually realize anger & malice do not solve any problem and begins to find ways to deal with Your differences, both of You begin to compromise here and there & adjust to each other.
5.THE ACCEPTANCE STAGE:
When it occurs to You that some things are just part of Your Partner and may never change. You resigned from anger, abuse, & quarrel and then, choose to accept them, Lovingly & Peacefully