These Things Destroy Marriages Very Fast
Have you wondered that the rate of separation and divorce rates are increasing despite marriage teachings and counseling, marriage vows and marriage certificates among the rich, the poor, the middle class, the educated and uneducated? Hasn’t this bothered you before?
When we say our wedding vows, we commit to our spouse and refuse all other loves. We don’t “keep our options open” for someone “better”.
Infidelity is just as much an emotional affair as a physical one. Infidelity often begins with bitterness and anger, so deal with those “murder suspects” quickly.
Know your boundaries now that you are married. When you relate to the opposite sex, else your partner may misinterpret the ordinary relationship as cheating and you know what that means.
The truth is that women feel more loved by the spouse actions not by your money, they want to see from your eyes that you are glad to have them. So find a way to show her that you doing all just for them.
Find a way to show her that love. Send some romantic texts to her from the office and get her the things she cherishes as you go home in the evening. She will be happy to see that. It really works.
What type of a husband are you? A boss or a caring husband? A good husband shows love to his wife and family, but most times he has to compromise during certain issues just to make sure peace reigns.
However, the boss’s husband roars and everyone takes to his or her heels.
There’s nothing like compromise in his dictionary.
All he wants is for his order to be carried to the last. Every woman detests that and it will hurt your marriage if you do that.
Being unequally yoked instead of balancing your marriage yoke.
The one that is carrying more load will get tired soon instead of making their live easier.
The yoke has to be carried by both partners. Both partners have to be a strength and support to each other.
No marriage is perfect, rather perfection is no more a trend nowadays.
So, mistakes are natural and you must make them, but you need to realize whether they are damaging your relationship.
In that case, your apology will never work. This is because repeating the same mistakes over a period of time results in creating a rift in your relationship.